About Me
Hi, I’m Calem. I’m originally from the UK but have called New Zealand home for many years. As a counsellor I have a deep belief in the power of self-understanding and change. My own experiences—both in life and in therapy—have shaped the way I work and the respect I have for each person’s unique journey.
Before training as a counsellor, I worked in a range of roles but I was drawn to this work by a longstanding interest in how people navigate change, make sense of their experiences, and grow through struggle. I’ve always been drawn to meaningful conversations—the kind that bring clarity, self-awareness, and a sense of direction.
How I Work
Life can feel like a series of battles—some big, some small, but all exhausting when faced alone. In today’s world, it’s easy to feel stuck, disconnected, or unsure of where we fit. Many of us carry silent struggles, convinced we should handle them on our own. But real growth often comes from facing these challenges with honesty, curiosity, and the right support.
I work with people who feel caught between conflicting parts of themselves—whether in relationships, identity, or personal values. My focus is on helping clients untangle these inner tensions and move toward greater self-understanding. I don’t offer prepackaged answers or quick fixes. My role isn’t to tell you what to think or feel, but to provide a space where you can explore things openly, on your terms, in your own way.
Whatever you’re facing, you don’t have to navigate it alone. If you’re ready to explore your next steps, I’d be honored to walk alongside you.
What I Work With:
- Stress, anxiety, and low mood
- Trauma
- Relationship challenges
- Identity and self-understanding
- Addiction concerns (including video games and pornography)
- Life transitions and meaning
Many people I work with feel stuck in patterns of stress, anxiety, or inner conflict, unsure how to move forward. Others struggle with relationships, identity, addiction, or finding meaning in their lives. I focus on understanding the deeper roots of these struggles—not just managing symptoms, but exploring the underlying patterns that shape them.
FAQs
What are your qualifications?
- Post Graduate Diploma in Psychotherapy (AUT)
- Bachelor of Counselling (Laidlaw)
Who are you registered with?
- Provisional Member, Registered with NZ Association of Counsellors (NZAC)
When are you available?
Monday-Friday, after hours or weekends on request
How do I find the right therpist?
It's often said that the success of therapy depends largely on the relationship between client and therapist. Finding the right fit might be as simple as choosing someone you feel comfortable with and safe around.
Your first few sessions can be a good opportunity to notice how you feel in the space—whether you feel heard, understood, and at ease. It can help to reflect on what you’re looking for in therapy and whether this feels like the right environment for you.
What can I expect in the first session?
Many people feel unsure about what to expect when starting therapy, and the first session can look different for everyone. In general, we might explore what’s bringing you in, what you hope to gain from therapy, and any questions you have. There’s no pressure to share more than you’re comfortable with—this is your space, and we’ll go at your pace.
How long does therapy take?
Therapy is different for everyone. Some people come for just a few sessions to work through a specific issue, while others engage in longer-term therapy for deeper exploration and change. We can discuss your needs and goals to find the right approach for you.
What if I don’t know what I need help with?
That’s okay. You don’t need to have everything figured out before coming to therapy. Sometimes, the work is in untangling things together—understanding patterns, clarifying feelings, and making sense of what’s underneath the surface.
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1 Basra Drive, Henderson, Auckland
February, 2025
Friday
August 26,2019
- Tuesday
- 9:00am - 10:00am
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